“You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.” - Marcus Aurelius Viola's Theme by Jacob The other day the bus driver thought I was Thea's grandfather. Man that cut deep. Not because of my ego. Quite frankly I think I look good for my age (and my Oura ring tells me my cardiovascular age is 7.5 years younger!) It cut deep because it was a reminder. Yes my wife and I had a really hard time getting pregnant. Yes we had twin babies that didnt survive. All of those things contributed to us having our children later than we had originally planned. So... thank you sir. Thank you for your attempt at a kind greeting that ended up being a slap in the face that stung pretty bad. _________________________________________________________________________________...
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